What is one of the biggest reasons relationships end all over the world? One partner fall out of love with the other. Your ex just isn't that into you anymore. When things usually start out so well in a relationship, why does this happen?
The reasons are varied. It could be that they find you no longer as sexually attractive, or you don't make enough money, or your quirks and issues just arent that fun. It could be that over time you fought and argued too much. However, for one or more reasons, your ex fell out of love with you and is no longer into you.
This is one of the most difficult things to recover from when you want to get your ex back. Once your mate has figured out you are no longer the one for them, they can start to build up a large emotional distance and close off their heart. They may be very friendly towards you, but not feel that close or intimate. Getting your ex back when this has happened is a big challenge.
Is there anything you can do to get your ex back into you? Is there a way to get back into their heart?
Sometimes, yes, it can be done. It will take some humility along with a willingness to change something about yourself.
One of the first things to do is to get very clear about their reason for not being into you anymore. Usually it is just one or two things. Did you fight and argue too much? Did the sex become too mechanical? Did you gain weight or lose your income and become a money drain?
If you can figure out as objectively as possibly why they lost interest in you, then the next step is to figure out if you are willing to change that about yourself. If they lost interest because you gained 20 lbs, do you want to diet for them and get back into better shape? If you lost your job and stopped earning money, are you willing to work 3 part time jobs to make up for it?
Once youve figured out why they arent into you, and you decide you are willing to change yourself to give them what they want and stop being a way they don't want, then you talk to them and aim to convince them to give you another chance while you prove to them that you can change to be the way they want. It does not always work, but it is one of the only strategies you can employ when a mate is no longer into you.
The reasons are varied. It could be that they find you no longer as sexually attractive, or you don't make enough money, or your quirks and issues just arent that fun. It could be that over time you fought and argued too much. However, for one or more reasons, your ex fell out of love with you and is no longer into you.
This is one of the most difficult things to recover from when you want to get your ex back. Once your mate has figured out you are no longer the one for them, they can start to build up a large emotional distance and close off their heart. They may be very friendly towards you, but not feel that close or intimate. Getting your ex back when this has happened is a big challenge.
Is there anything you can do to get your ex back into you? Is there a way to get back into their heart?
Sometimes, yes, it can be done. It will take some humility along with a willingness to change something about yourself.
One of the first things to do is to get very clear about their reason for not being into you anymore. Usually it is just one or two things. Did you fight and argue too much? Did the sex become too mechanical? Did you gain weight or lose your income and become a money drain?
If you can figure out as objectively as possibly why they lost interest in you, then the next step is to figure out if you are willing to change that about yourself. If they lost interest because you gained 20 lbs, do you want to diet for them and get back into better shape? If you lost your job and stopped earning money, are you willing to work 3 part time jobs to make up for it?
Once youve figured out why they arent into you, and you decide you are willing to change yourself to give them what they want and stop being a way they don't want, then you talk to them and aim to convince them to give you another chance while you prove to them that you can change to be the way they want. It does not always work, but it is one of the only strategies you can employ when a mate is no longer into you.
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